welcome to coastal carothers

Hey Babe, I’m Sidney

I didn’t start this blog because everything was going right. I started it because I felt like I was losing myself. I had done so much work to get to where I was. This was not progress or a version of myself I was willing to let slip from my grasp.

If you’re here, you probably need the same thing I did.

You also need a place to reflect, ground yourself, continue your growth, and shift from a head full of complexity to a peaceful mind of simplicity.

This space is a mix of everything I love and everything I’m learning. Honest reflections and journal-style entries, thoughtfully written lifestyle pieces, glimpses into motherhood, creativity, and growth, pieces of the softer and louder sides of me.

This isn’t a place of perfection. It’s a place for honesty, evolution, and reflection.

If you’re just getting here, start with my first post.

Facts about me

Favorite Movie

Together

Favorite Season

Summer

FAVORITE COLOR

Periwinkle Blue

FAVORITE SHOW

Dexter

Favorite food

Beans

FAVORITE BAND

Green Day

How it started

I’ve wanted to start a blog for as long as I can remember, back when MySpace was still a thing and the internet felt a lot smaller. I’ve planned it more times than I can count, started and stopped, circled back, and let it go again. But something about this time felt different. Something finally stuck. And now, it’s here.

I’ve always been creative at heart. Writing, art, photography, anything that lets me turn thoughts into something tangible. I find inspiration in the smallest parts of everyday life, and for as long as I can remember, journaling has been my way of making sense of it all. It’s how I’ve processed emotions, cleared my mind, and expressed the things I never quite knew how to say out loud. But there was always a part of me that wished I could be more open, more vulnerable, without hiding behind the page.

This space is my way of finally doing that.

“Another Day in Paradise” is more than just a tagline to me, it’s a mindset I carry with me every day. Sometimes it’s said lightheartedly, even sarcastically, but at its core, it’s a reminder to find meaning in the ordinary and to treat each day like something worth remembering. This blog is my way of documenting that. To hold onto moments, thoughts, and feelings as they happen, and to create something lasting out of them.

Over the years, I’ve learned to understand my mind by separating it into two states: simplicity and complexity. Simplicity is clarity, calm, confidence. It’s when I feel grounded, present, and fully myself. Complexity is the opposite. When anxiety, OCD, and overthinking take over, and everything feels heavy, loud, and out of control.

Learning to recognize the difference has changed everything for me.

This blog is part of that balance.

It’s where I can take the complexity out of my mind, lay it down, and return to a place of simplicity. It’s where I can be fully, unapologetically myself and maybe, along the way, create a space where someone else feels a little more understood too.

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